最近身边的朋友陆续传来结婚的消息

搞得自己也突然有一股想要结婚的冲动

向来对婚姻的憧憬是很完美的

同个屋檐下，很相爱，很信任

彼此实现两人之间许下过的承诺

好像开始了解有时在生活里自私是必要的

稍微犹豫想太多的瞬间往往一切就消失了

哈哈，也许最近自己身体状况不是很理想吧

加上工作的压力，不足的睡眠

所以很想要经历被照顾，被疼的感觉

总觉得长大一点都不好玩

感觉怎么成人的世界好像很复杂

总是少了那一点单纯的快乐

为何不能很单纯很勇敢的面对自己真正想要的

为何总要徘徊在连自己也不晓得是不是自己想要的

如果到一个陌生的环境可以更清楚看见自己的话

我真的好想要离开一下

会去看这场演唱会的故事还真有趣

我是强奸式的被拖去看阿妹的演出

哈哈,何谓强奸式呢?

这要多得我亲爱的老友黄振伦啦!

他一听见阿妹来马开演唱会, 第一时间就call我

第一通电话的内容简单直接，区区只用了3句话：

阿妹3月20日来开演唱会

我帮你买最贵的票

是这样，拜拜！

过了不久，又来了一通电话，更是简单有力，同样3句话：

我帮你买了阿妹的票

请你bank-in钱给我

是这样，拜拜！

哇牢耶！！完全没有反抗的余地，只好乖乖任命了！哈哈！

真的是超棒的演出，虽然舞台没有非常的华丽

但阿妹的歌声已经足够于征服在场的每一个人

随着音乐的旋律身体会不由自主的律动

随着阿妹超有爆发力及穿透力的歌声大家更是深深陶醉，放声大唱！

看着阿妹在台上卖力的演出，看着全场几万人一起合唱几乎每一首歌

心里有了些小小的感触

很羡慕上天给了她这副超好的嗓子，很感动能现场感受到这嗓子的可怕

虽然如此却不能排除她后天的努力

因为每一个节拍，每一个音准度，每一个小细节

都显得那么的完美！

一路走来阿妹应该经历了好多好多吧！

能有今天的成绩，她的付出有多大

她所牺牲的人事物有几多，被迫放弃的人事物又有几多!

一直在想，有几万人伴唱你的歌的感觉会是如何

想必这就是阿妹一直梗咽的原因吧！

因为我想这真的是一份非常真实的感动，所以感觉应该真的是很棒吧！

好啦，超累了，下一个entry我想要分析观众的类型，哈哈！

敬请期待！

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Oh ya, Happy Valentine's Day too!